The late Mr. Aloysius
Nwankwo served as steward to Mrs. Alma Cockrell (then, Alma McKeithan)
during her years of service to the Nigerian Ministry of Education at
schools in Makurdi and Itobi. Aloysius accepted employment with
Alma in 1974 only a few years after the Nigerian-Biafran
War, which occurred during the period 1967 to 1970. Aloysius
was from Ehume, a town near the center of the Igbo (Ibo) heartland.
Starvation was a
"legitimate" weapon of war for the Nigerians against the Igbo
tribe, which was a major part of Biafra. One of the Nigerian
leaders publicly stated, "I want to prevent even one Igbo having
even one piece to eat before their capitulation. We shoot at
everything that moves, and when our forces move into the center of Igbo
territory, we shoot at everything, even things that do not
move." Ehume was destroyed in this war. Many of the
educated children were murdered. Aloysius lost two of his nine children as a result of this conflict. Although there was limited
reconstruction of the war damage after 1970, little was done in the Igbo
territory and the public infrastructure, including educational
institutions, is in ruins even today.
Alma hired Aloysius,
previously a businessman, to be her steward. By Nigerian
standards, she paid him well, because she knew the needs of his
family. When he returned home from time-to-time, she would send
extra money to help with the education of his children. His
daughter, Grace, wanted very much to study beyond secondary
school. Aloysius was not sure this was necessary for her.
Alma insisted and provided money for Grace's schooling. His son,
Lawrence, came to Makurdi, and Alma paid his tuition to attend a
Catholic school in the area for five years. Another son, Herbert, expressed his
desire to study in the USA, but had no one to advise him. Alma
sponsored Herbert and recommended North Carolina A & T University in
Greensboro, North Carolina. Sponsorship meant that she assumed
responsibility for any unpaid debts that he might incur as a student.
Herbert worked his way through two universities and did not stop until
he earned his Ph. D. Now, he is a professor at North Carolina A
& T University and is a member of the Ehume Foundation, USA.
According to Alma,
Aloysius started each day in prayer at a chapel. He was a wise
gentleman, greatly respected by villagers near the school. He
slept near Alma's door at night to discourage thieves. He helped
her through three life-threatening bouts with malaria, and helped her
care for sick students. He went to
the market and did all the shopping and prepared delicious meals with
whatever was available. He helped her survive three military
coups. He advised her to slow down when he sensed she was
overworked. He gave her wise counsel, which she needed and
appreciated.
When
Aloysius returned to Ehume to live out his remaining years after working
for Alma, he was honored with a chieftaincy, holding the position of
Cabinet Chief at the time of his death.
Mr. Aloysius Nwankwo
should be remembered for a long time as a caring husband and father, a
faithful hardworking provider, and a super role-model for his sons and
their sons and continuing until time fades memories and family stories into
an inspiring legends of a patriarch of Ehume during a time of great
struggle. May he rest in peace.